5 Ways Men and Women View Weight Loss Differently

Men & Women and Weight Loss

Obesity is equal opportunity: it affects both men and women. In fact, women are at a slightly higher risk of obesity than men, especially after menopause. Among adults, 38% of women are obese versus 34% of men. However, women and men approach weight loss differently.

Unfortunately, studies show women are more likely to be stigmatized for being overweight or obese than men even with similar degrees of obesity. Females are also more likely to not be promoted in the workplace if they’re carrying too many pounds. So, there’s more pressure for women to maintain healthy body weight than men. However, research shows that obesity is more harmful from a health standpoint for men than women. In fact, studies show men are three times more likely to die from complications from obesity than women.

Let’s look at some ways men and women differ in their perception of and approach to weight loss.

Men Are Less Likely to Think They’re Emotional Eaters

One cause of weight gain is emotional eating, eating for comfort or to relieve stress. Most people think women are the emotional eaters, but men can be stress eaters too. However, men are less likely to own up to emotional eating like women are. Instead, they’re closet eaters. Emotional eating is another term for eating because of stress or for reasons other than hunger.

Men who stress like to devour foods high in sugar and fat, often with little nutritional value, the same type of hyper-palatable foods that women do. However, one study found that women lean toward sugary foods when stressed while men prefer salty, crunchy fare, like potato chips. Another study found that men prefer comfort foods similar to what their mother would have prepared, like macaroni and cheese, while women gravitate toward pre-packaged snacks, often sugar ones, particularly chocolate.

The trigger for stress eating is the stress hormone cortisol. In fact, a study carried out by British researchers found that subjects who produced more cortisol when under stress snacked more than those who produced lesser cortisol in response to being stressed out. Cortisol is a stress hormone that stimulates appetite and the desire to eat foods high in fat and sugar.

Taming cortisol can help with emotional eating. Men and women can lower their cortisol levels through relaxing activities, like walking in nature, yoga, meditation, and other mind-body exercises. That, in turn, can help with overeating related to stress.

Men Are Less Likely to See Themselves as Overweight

Women are quick to point out that they’re overweight and need to shed a few pounds, but men are less likely to view themselves as overweight even when they are. Studies also show women are more likely to take steps to lose weight than men, maybe because they acknowledge that they are overweight whereas men deny it. In fact, a study showed that more than half of normal-weight women felt they were overweight and could stand to lose a few pounds. In contrast, a man who is 20 pounds overweight may no see it as a problem. So, men are more liberal in how much weight they’ll tolerate before they perceive that they’re overweight and need to take action.

Men Gravitate Toward Different Foods When Trying to Lose Weight

Guys differ in the diet they adopt for weight control too. When trying to shed a few pounds, men are more likely to adopt a meat-based diet, like a high-fat, high protein ketogenic, diet while women gravitate more toward plant-based diets. Women are also more likely to count calories, although that’s changing as people realize food composition and nutrient density matters too.

The reality is both genders need healthy sources of lean protein and fiber-rich fruits and vegetables for weight loss. The worst way to approach losing weight is to restrict multiple foods or food groups. In fact, that’s the marker of a fad diet. The dietary component almost everyone should restrict or eliminate is sugar and ultra-processed carbohydrates.

Women Focus More on Losing Weight, Men on Getting Fitter

Men are less likely to admit they’re trying to lose weight. Instead, they say they’re trying to get fitter, so it’s not surprising that exercise is part of their weight loss plan. However, women, too, understand the importance of exercise for healthy body composition. You may lose weight at first through dietary changes, but research shows exercise is the key to maintaining that weight loss. Women and men who lift weights and build muscle size improve how their body processes glucose and the extra muscle can boost resting metabolic rate slightly and that helps with weight control.

More women acknowledge that strength training matters too and that’s why both genders are lifting heavy weights these days. Weight training is most important for optimizing body composition. The goal is to lose body fat without losing muscle. Working with weights is the best way to accomplish this.

Men Are Likely to Get Motivated for Medical Reasons

Women are more likely to want to lose weight to improve their appearance and to feel better overall. For men, it may take the threat of a health problem, such as elevated blood pressure or blood sugar, to get them to take action.

The Bottom Line

Men and women view weight control a bit differently. Guys also lose weight faster than women. However, the basics of health and weight control are the same for both genders. A healthy diet, more physical activity, adequate sleep, and stress management are the key to achieving a healthy body weight, regardless of your gender.



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